unforeseen life and expectable life..?which u prefer??

I have choose this topic as my title of writing is because even myself also always revolve around this issue.Actually,definetely for sure i think that quite a lots of people will more towards to expectable life because everythings that happen are in hands. Even it is safer and guaranteed, however don't u think yours life will be more interesting with the presence of the unexpected elements..By the way, it is all depends on what kinds of life u want to lead in the future..Be remember,you are the one that decide your life not others..Moreover, there is a sentence that have impressed me a lots which is heard from Pn. Sidah-you are the ones that controls the problem but not the problem controls you.This sentence makes me feel like having an injection of adrenalin.I have to say that it really screws up my courage.By hook or by crook,i have to admit that my distress has gets its way out after hearing said sentence.So,it is tremendously vital that you are able to construct the life you want with precondition that you have to possess a few qualities likes persistance.However, i think compared to expectable life,unforeseen life seems more challenging since affair happens without your sense,it can be pop out anytime and maybe a point that change yours life..For me, i prefer latter but it doesn't mean that i advocate that life no need be managed.Nevertheless, being able to tackle the unexpectable affair that pops out is no an easy task, u have to well-prepared .Possesion of characteristics such as elastic and flexible are integral for those who are more towards unforeseen life.Futhermore, i would like to emphasise that being elastic and flexible does not means fickle.They are different.

Lastly, i would like to say that success comes only after striving, no matter what kinds of life u going to lead, the crucial is that u have to well prepared.